Teaching in the Milk Program

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I feel so blessed to be a part of the ASELSI Milk Program.

If I didn’t actually see first hand the lives of the mothers and babies here, I don’t think I’d believe it. While we’re only a three hour’s flight away from the United States, this is truly a different world.

The Mayans we serve among rarely drink clean water. They have to boil or filter the polluted water they have. Even their tap water has bacteria in it.  Many of them don’t boil the water long enough or even at all. Sick babies with diarrhea are common place.  Many times, the money to buy a filter that would cost less than US$200 just isn’t available for these families who usually make about $7 a day.

At the Milk Program, where we supply families with milk,formula, vitamins and cereal to help keep their undernourished children healthy, we are only able to supply about 1/3 of the formula that the children actually need for a month. The rest of the month’s supply of food is the responsibility of the families. This means that in most cases the children never get the amount of food they really need.

Currently there are 135 children in the milk program where I help by evaluating babies, helping keep track of kids that continue to fail to thrive, and by teaching hygiene techniques to the mothers. I also evaluate babies who are severely malnourished and I send them to the hospital with ASELSI covering all costs of transportation and the consultation. Sadly, however, sometimes the moms never show up to bring their babies to the hospital.

One mother who recently didn’t show up to go to the hospital with her severely malnourished and dying baby said her husband told her that she couldn’t go. She regularly came each month for her free milk, but her baby was not showing any improvements. She then told the nurses that she just simply didn’t have the time to take care of him because this was her eleventh baby. Many times these babies die because the parents don’t have the money to feed them formula and when the family sees them not thriving they become seen as a “burden.”

Sometimes mothers who already have many hungry children give their babies away to a family who is able to better provide for them. We know that there is a definite physical need to be met here in Guatemala, but more than this we see such a spiritual need for Christ as well. We give the mothers and children Bible lessons, lessons on hygiene and etc.  while they are waiting for their milk and we pray with and over the families. It is such a joy to see these women come to their Heavenly Father in prayer and hope that he brings no matter their current situations!

Matthew 10:42 (NIV)

“And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones who is my disciple, truly I tell you, that person will certainly not lose their reward.”

 

 

How to say “hola” in Guatemala.

The tree covered walk at the cemetery in Totonicapan, Guatemala.

We’re learning a lot here in Guatemala and it’s not just how to speak Spanish. We’re also learning how to interact in our new culture!

Guatemala has a very friendly culture and, similar to many Latin cultures, greetings are handled differently here than we were use to in the States. We discovered this pretty quickly when we were invited to be part of a family gathering for some new friends of ours.

GREETINGS

  • For guys to girls and girls to girls, the greeters give a light  hug and touch cheeks. Usually right cheek to right cheek. As their  cheeks touch they make a slight kissing sound and there you go!
  • Guys to guys give a hand shake or possibly a hug, but usually just a hand shake unless you know them well.

It was a Sunday morning after church a few weeks ago when we packed in their little Toyota and drove up the valley from Quetzaltenango to the village of Totonicapan. We stopped in at the matron of the family’s home and started our greetings. “Grandma” greeted us at the door with the traditional greeting though she actually gave us kisses on the cheek. We went through the whole house greeting everyone with, “Buenos Dias!” and the traditional hugs and air-kisses.

We headed into town  in a local transit bus called a microbus (these inexpensive buses are a great way to get around…and they’re’s always room for one more!).

Friends in Totonicapan

A Sunday afternoon with friends in Totonicapan, Guatemala

Our friends gave us a walking tour of the city and the local cemetery (Cemeteries are local attractions in Guatemala for some reason and some have interesting legends.) then we headed back to the house for lunch.

At the house Chrisi and our new friend Shes, walked in the gate one of the cousins, a 10-year-old boy, ignored Shes and walked straight up to Chrisi and said a bold, “Hello!” He leaned up to give Chrisi a traditional greeting, but turned his head and gave her a big kiss right on the cheek!  Chrisi was caught off guard by this bold youngster and he walked away smiling to obvious amusement of his friends. I missed the whole thing, but with Chrisi as pretty as she is, it’s no wonder to me that this young upstart would want to kiss my bride!

So, while there are unspoken rules and it’s generally O.K. for grandmas and moms to actually give real cheek kisses, you have to be a bit careful with the bold youth who just might take advantage of the “air kiss” and substitute a real one!

Here’s a few more tips for greetings:

WHEN TO SAY WHAT…

  • “Buenos Dias!”      –  From 6 a.m. to 12p.m.
  • “Buenas Tardes!” –  From 12 p.m. to about 6 p.m. or dark
  • “Buenas Noches!” — From about 6 p.m. or dark to when you go to bed.

WHAT NOT TO SAY…

  • It’s “Buenos Dias!”  with the “o” in “Buenos” saying this with an “a” is a typical mistake of new Spanish speakers.
  • You’ll hear it on the streets, but try to avoid just saying, “Buenos!” (Our house mom taught us not to do this. She once incredulously asked, “Buenos? Buenos que?” (“Good? Good what?”)  explaining that you should give the full greeting.